Adolescence and Problems
Published by admin, on Feb 15 2009, in the categories: Uncategorized
For many kids today the most important thing is the physical aspect. They start to wear all kinds of clothes just to be unique and stand out, they create a certain look just to be accepted. This is the period when they choose a road in life and they need to be well taken care of . Girls want to lose weight so that they can look like magazine models, want bigger breasts so that boys would like them more and all these things become important issues in their heads. Parents are the enemy at this age so there is no chance in hell teenagers would talk to their parents about their problems. They discuss it with friends and that`s it. Being cool in school is also very important.
Because children can be very easy influenced they would do anything to be cool, from drinking very much at a party to taking drugs just for fun, to having sex with strangers , all these things are awsome in their minds. It`s hard to take care of teenagers because this is the age when they experiment and nothing you say is going to matter because they want to learn from their own mistakes. As a parent you have to be pacient and be there for your kid. Locking him in his room for days won`t solve anything. When he gets out there is maybe the possibility of returning after a few days. It`s best to give them their freedom and if they screw up they will come eventually.
Another adolescence problem is having sex, especially for girls. Because they are very young and innocent, they fall in love with the wrong boys that just want to take advantage. If the girl is smart she will wait for the right guy but more and more girls these days, end up pregnant at 17 years old or end up in rehab centers. Girls especially need to be careful. Don`t drink so much alcohol, and never take X pills or other drugs at parties where you don`t know anybody. These are current problems in our society and also in the educational system. Teenagers are always going to cause troubles. Remember when you were a teenager what you were doing and then talk to your kid.
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